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Baby Mamas

Posted Thursday, February 11, 2010, at 1:01 PM

At the Saline County Health Department board meeting Tuesday night, which I covered, board President Stephen Allegri mentioned Saline County's unfortunately high rate of teen pregnancy, one of the many things covered in the recently released KIDS COUNT report. According to that document, the county has the 70th lowest rate of births to teens in the state, out of 114 counties, with 48 births per 1,000 teens ages 15 to 19 in 2009.

Not having attended high school here myself, I can't speak to how those numbers play out. But, I can say that, because of my own experience, I'm not completely shocked. I remember about a half-dozen girls in my high school class of 160 who attended graduation with babies in tow. Actually, the first pregnancy among my classmates that I remember happened the summer after sixth grade.

I can also say that my sex education was pretty lacking, living in the buckle of the Bible belt. In high school health class, I was honestly taught that STDs spontaneously came into being as the result of promiscuity. Ours was definitely an abstinence-only program with little substance, though there were plenty of doughnuts to keep our stomachs full and our minds unquestioning.

But after all, this is the 21st century, the age of information. I find it hard to believe that most teens truly don't know the consequences of their actions. And if they don't, it's pretty easy to learn by a quick Internet search. It's also pretty easy to prevent the whole thing. Birth control pills at the health department cost $10, and condoms are free. And even if a pregnancy occurs, becoming a mother isn't the only choice. Adoption is a wonderful option, and of course, abortions are available at clinics in Kansas City.

What I find most shocking of all is a statement made by Marshall physician Dr. David Keuhn in a story about KIDS COUNT by Democrat-News reporter Kathy Fairchild. Keuhn said he wasn't surprised at Saline County's high rate of teen pregnancy because some of his teenage patients actually want to have babies. That's right, these uneducated, dependent, adolescent girls feel like they just can't wait any longer before reproducing. It obviously hasn't occurred to them that they have about 20 good child-bearing years left ahead of them.

Whether accidental or planned, few of these pregnant teens seem to be considering the future consequences for themselves or their children. Here is a sampling of some sobering statistics from the March of Dimes' Web site.

>>"A teenage mother is at greater risk than women over age 20 for pregnancy complications, such as premature labor, anemia and high blood pressure. These risks are even greater for teens who are under 15 years old."

>>"Teen mothers are more likely than mothers over age 20 to give birth prematurely (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy). Between 2003 and 2005, preterm birth rates averaged 14.5 percent for women under age 20 compared to 11.9 percent for women ages 20 to 29. Babies born prematurely face an increased risk of newborn health problems, long-term disabilities and even death."

>>"Only 40 percent of teenagers who have children before age 18 go on to graduate from high school, compared to 75 percent of teens from similar social and economic backgrounds who do not give birth until ages 20 or 21." (I actually know of two who have graduated from college, though they are obviously in the minority).

>>"Teen mothers are more likely to live in poverty than women who delay childbearing, and more than 75 percent of all unmarried teen mothers go on welfare within 5 years of the birth of their first child."

>>"About 64 percent of children born to an unmarried teenage high-school dropout live in poverty, compared to 7 percent of children born to women over age 20 who are married and high school graduates. A child born to a teenage mother is 50 percent more likely to repeat a grade in school and is more likely to perform poorly on standardized tests and drop out before finishing high school."

If I had gotten pregnant in high school, I wouldn't have been disowned or severely punished. But, I would have disappointed my mother to the point of a broken heart, and the course of my life probably would have been very different. I'm thankful that didn't happen, and even now, I can hardly believe I'm old enough to be completely responsible for someone else. But this isn't about me. It's about the future of Saline County, which will be a much brighter one when babies aren't born to mothers who are practically babies themselves.


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Thank you Sidney. We need more exposure to information like this. Keep up the good work.

-- Posted by izaak on Fri, Feb 12, 2010, at 11:27 PM

Great topic, one that should be put in the spot light more often. Having grown up here, I can reflect on my growing up and how things were handled by my parents. I am a parent as well, granted my kids are still young.

However I can also remember a classmate getting pregnant around 6th grade. So I say to any parent who has a child in the 5th grade, be realistic...if you think sexual activity is at least on their minds...you are kidding yourself.

I personally feel parents stepping up and addressing the topic head on is the first step. Talk to your kids, if these kids are going to be sexually active there is NOTHING you can do to stop it. Again if you think you can, you are kidding yourself. Talk to them, being safe and protected is the key here. Provide them with an open communication line, allow them access to doctors and the necessary items to prevent pregnancy.

In addition, if there was something to do in this town for these young people to do...it would lesson the availability of teens being closed up in houses with no supervision to do as they wish.

Those are just my opinions take them as you will.

-- Posted by Scarpetta on Sat, Feb 13, 2010, at 11:04 PM

I am sorry for the double post, but I forgot an important part.

Teens today are faced with a hefty bill to get birth control with out their parents knowledge. The pills alone are around $40 dollars a month let alone the $100+ office visit.

Yes they can get the cheap ones (free clinic?), but then so and so will see them and tell their parents. There is no way for kids to take it upon themselves to get their own birth control in an affordable fashion.

-- Posted by Scarpetta on Sat, Feb 13, 2010, at 11:06 PM

Agreed NanaDot, the boys do need to be held to the same standard...but they aren't that is sadly the truth. It is a typical double standard...it is honestly a shame.

Condoms are cheap, not totally effective but better than nothing. Other medical advances are now available today that weren't 10 years ago.

Education and parental guidance/involvement are key in this matter, at least that is my personal opinion.

What is that show on MTV, "Teen Mom" I think. Maybe if some of these youngsters watch this show they can see what it is actually like to get pregnant and have a child. Most of the couples (I use that term with caution) don't even last until the delivery of the child. It is honestly a show that parents could sit down and watch with their teens and go from there.

-- Posted by Scarpetta on Mon, Feb 15, 2010, at 10:12 AM

Scarpetta--what do you suggest as "something in this town for these people to do"? The middle school and high school offer many, many activities besides sports for the kids to do. We have the Y and in the summer the pool at the park. Teens can get jobs or volunteer or play video games with their friends. We have many churches and most offer youth activities. If a teen is going to be sexually active, it will not depend on what other activities are available instead.

-- Posted by WickedWitch on Fri, Feb 19, 2010, at 12:26 PM

As a teen mother I totally disagree with this blog entry. People that have not been in our situation do not have any reason to make statments regarding it... have your own opinion but before you make suggestions to abort or even adopt.... think of how hard it would be on the teen mother. I myself had my son 6 weeks ago exactly and I take very good care of him...... I know it seems like a mistake to some people but keep your opinion to your self. Its not right to use satistics for all teen mothers because all teen moms are not the same. So think before you make blogs or comments about teen pregnancy!

-- Posted by MHS-STUDENT on Thu, Mar 11, 2010, at 7:20 PM

Statistics reflect the reality of situations that takes away the emotional aspect of the issue at hand. In this case, teen pregnancy has an overwhelming abundance of hardships and risks for both the child and the mother, and even the grandparents of the baby.

The reality is that our society, with its celebrity worship and the amount of conditioning and learning that our media outlets lend to our children in this "electronic babysitting" era, has major problems and teen pregnancy is a major symptom

-- Posted by mrxray on Sat, Apr 3, 2010, at 4:31 AM


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